Tristan Coopersmith speaks my language. Her book, MENu dating, offers a unique guide to romance: "Basically, MENu Daters believe that there is no such thing as a bad date and employ the practice of feasting on an assortment of delectable flavors of single guys," she tells me.

"In the process," she adds, "they learn about who they are and what they want and need out of a relationship."

Since Jesse Kovacs from The Bachelorette share some dating "don'ts," {see his tips here} Tristan whipped up 5 dating DOs!

1. Play up your assets, or as Tristan says, "Find your cleavage." Every woman has beauty, whatever that best feature may be. "Market that the next time you go out into the field shopping for guys," she advises.

2. Say yes. "By always taking applications you increase your odds about learning what works for you and what doesn't," she says. "It's one harmless little date - at the worse, you have a good story to share with your friends - and at the best, you have a great time."

3. Be realistic. "Acknowledge that on a first date…it does you no good to start fantasizing what a great dad he would make or if he may be available to be your date at your cousins wedding in 3 months," Tristan says.

4. Practice makes perfect. "Just to gain confidence, talk to any 2 guys per day," she suggests. "They don't need to be guys you want to date. Easy approaches include a simple 'hello' commenting on a book they are reading, asking for their opinion on something, or offering a compliment. By the time you find a guy you actually consider a prospect, you will be 100 times more confident."

5. Play on his level. "Wear the right shoes," Tristan zenfully surmises. . "If a guy invites you to a baseball game for example, remain flatfooted. Otherwise you run the risk of striking out when he interprets your heightened height for a decrease in down to earthiness. Guys were born to play anytime, anywhere and sometimes our stilettos get in the way of their fun. Lose the heels (when not appropriate) and come back down to earth if you want to play ball in the game of like and love!"

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Wes Ferguson is a lifestyle expert and entertainment writer living out the Young Hollywood dream in beautiful Westside Los Angeles.

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